Threesome sex

Threesome is a sexual relationship that involves three partners. All combinations are allowed: 2 men and 1 woman (MMF), two women and one man, three women or 3 men. In practice, troilism is experienced as a couple: partners occasionally invite a third person to share a sexual act. This experience satisfies couples whose passion is fading, or those with a healthy sexual appetite and whose quest for novelty excites.

Amateur trio: why be tempted?

Far from sexual mores reserved for the more adventurous, and connoted hard, amateur threesome part of widespread sexual experiences for couples. At the initiative of a partner, lovers choose together a third – man or woman, according to the preferences of each – and invite him to share, the time of a sexual act, their intimacy.

Why indulge in amateur threesome?

Ordinary life ultimately experiences the couple. When lovers practice their sexuality in a monotonous way and spacing more and more coitus, the couple is directly impacted. Routine, boredom and lack of carnal pleasure can quickly become a source of deteriorating relationships. This is when some lovers decide to boost their sexuality. Among the means to achieve this: amateur troilism. By inviting a third person, the couple draws several benefits:

  • The lovers make a fantastic experience to boost their libido.
  • The third party invited to the antics can give new ideas of sexual practice – positions, rhythm, dirty talk.
  • Partners put themselves in danger, source of excitement.

The risks

Amateur threesome can put the couple in danger to the point of separating when partners discovered much more fulfilling sexuality when the plan 3, he can choose to see the 3rd person and establish an inappropriate relationship to the other member of the couple. The threesome can further excite the point that a lover wants to retry the experiment each sex: the other is not enough.

Threesome first: tips for a successful experience

When the couple tries threesome for the first time, it is wise to follow a few basic rules.

  1. Choosing the right person: When finding the ideal third, lovers can think of someone they know or a stranger. Inviting an ex-lover to an experience of troilism can be tempting, but proving risky if the exs rediscover a passion for each other. Jealousy can also hurt the couple in this context. In practice, it is about choosing someone around you, to know what to expect, but without an intimate connection with one or the other member of the couple. Some will go for the last of the trio in a swingers club.
  2. To lay down rules and to respect them: who is authorized to do what act? The members of the couple are not necessarily inclined to consent to all forms of exchange at the time of the plan to 3. The wife of the couple may, for example, refuse to let her lover penetrate or kiss the third person of the trio. The man of the couple can refuse the double penetration of his partner. The three people who experiment the troilism have any interest to exchange verbally before the act to lay the bases.
  3. Protect yourself: whoever the third invited to threesomes, it is important for the three lovers to use condoms.

Threesomes, a widespread fantasy

threesome sex

Among the most widespread, the fantasy of troilism is often shared by men and women. As long as it takes place in the right conditions, the experience of troilism is often beneficial. A 3-point plan makes it possible to try a new practice, without exceeding the limits of the couple. The trio can take place in respect of the sensuality of partners without the hard character of some other new experiences.

In the majority of cases, the man will fantasize on a 3-plane with another woman, which is generally suitable for his partner. Because this context promotes gentleness, but also because the woman is often more inclined to a homosexual relationship than a man.