New to BDSM? Here’s a look at the bondage gear you need!

BDSM, short for Bondage, Discipline, Sadism and Masochism, isn’t something new, although it came to the limelight soon after the ’50 Shades of Grey’ books hit the shelves. For the uninitiated, BDSM is about bondage and restraint, where one partner plays the submissive, who is restrained, while the other partner is the dominant. One derives pleasure from the act of restraint, while the other loves the control and power he/she exercises on the other. If you are new to BDSM, it can take a while to get used to extreme stuff that you see in movies and adult images. In this post, we will talk of the simple products that make BDSM fun and are ideal for beginners.

  1. A Tickler. As the name suggests, this is meant to tickle and tease. You can also hit your partner lightly with this one, before you venture into the tougher things. This is quite comparable with a riding crop. If you check for bondage gear at Pleasuresntreasures.com, you will certainly find this on the list.
  2. Bondage Tape. With a bondage tape, you can work around restraint positions, but the good thing is some of the new ones don’t have to painful. You can easily remove these without feeling the pain of a wax strip.
  3. A swing. Sex on a swing – well that’s exciting for sure, and with a bit of bondage and restraint into the play, you can have a blast with your partner without actually hitting the bed. Swings don’t have to be expensive, but make sure that the one you choose is sturdy to hold enough weight.
  4. Bed restraint kits. These are ready kits that allows the dominant to restraint the submissive to the bed. You will get straps for the hands and legs, and it’s easy to use with any bed, regardless of the size and other aspects.
  5. A cuff. Not sure if you want to go for a full restraint mode? Well, a better idea is a handcuff that’s super easy to use and can be minimally restrictive. So, the submissive still remains in control, which is important to the comfort level.

Also, you can check for massage candles, which are a range these days. The wax, on heating, becomes a massage oil, and that the heat of the oil kind of creates a fun sensation that’s often loved by those who enjoy BDSM. Check online and start shortlisting!